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When you hear the word toddler what does it bring to mind? Certainly not neat, tidy and clean - toddlers and mess seem to go hand in hand! But there are ways of keeping the havoc a toddler can create under control, without tears from either of you.

Lets face it, its possible to clean up after a toddler all day long and still be faced with a mess at the end of the day. But consider this - isnt it much more practical to let mess happen where it will during the day and wait until the evening before you start to pick up the pieces. That compromise will give your toddler important freedom in her play; she can pick and choose between her games without worrying that theyre going to be cleaned up behind her.

Try to be flexible about clearing up. If your toddlers in the middle of constructing a brick city or setting up a teddy bears tea party, then dont insist that he has to put all his toys away just because its the end of the day. Gently move the work-in-progress out of everyones way and let him carry on where he left off in the morning. If hes finished the project, but isnt ready to dismantle it yet, then respect his wish to keep it all together for a while.

When it does come to clean up time, remember youre the one who wants everywhere to be tidy - your toddler isnt that bothered. Its only fair that you take on some of the work. But make the cleaning up process a team effort. Try not to be overwhelmed by the mess, and take one room or area at a time. Tackling a huge task in small pieces makes it less daunting and frustrating for you both. When your toddlers helping you, give her specific tasks one at a time, eg Put teddy on the shelf, then put your cuddly puppy next to him rather than pick up all your cuddly toys and put them on the shelf.

Try to make the cleaning up process fun - instead of snapping at your todder - Put your toys away now! why not suggest its time for the toys to go to sleep in their beds now? Challenging your child to a race that he can win is another way to make clearing up fun, eg Lets see who can put the most bricks in the tub by the time I count to ten! Singing along to the work also makes it go more smoothly. You can also make tidying into a learning experience - try teaching colours by saying, You put away all the red toys, and Ill put away the blue ones.

Dont make work for yourselves - invest in some easy-to-reach child-friendly storage - low and open shelves, shallow bins and boxes, pegs that arent out of arms reach. Avoid using one big toy chest as toys will sink to the depths and get broken which will result in tears and frustration when your toddler cant find what shes looking for.

Finally - dont insist on perfection. If your toddler seems to thrive on mess and muddle (and most do!) dont insist she keeps her own room absolutely immaculate. Make sure the rest of the house is tidy, but allow a little flexibility in her own area. And once the job is done, why not sit down with a good book from Scruffys Bookshop - the ideal place to find a great selection of kids e-books - instant downloads to read together after an exhausting session of clearing up!